John has become quite the little helper. One of his favorite things to do is help me cook. The other day I made a new salmon recipe (side note: salmon with a red wine butter sauce, it was delish). Anyways, I was chopping the shallots and John was standing at the island with me. Ever the safety concious little boy (must take after Grandpa--safety first!), he would seriously tell me "don't touch that pan, it's hot" and "be careful that knife is very sharp, you might hurt yourself". Where was John when
this incident occured?! Good thing I have someone to remind me knives are sharp these days....
Sadly, despite his enthusiasm in helping he still refuses to eat most anything "we" make together. However, he did help me make my annual Flag Cake and (surprise, surprise) decided that one was worth a little taste test
John is also very interested in doing "hard work". Whenever Kyle includes John in yard work or pulling weeds they talk about the importance of "hard work". It's funny to hear John say in his serious voice "Mom, I'm going outside with dad to do some hard work!"
When John is with
me, he aids and abets me with my crazy projects. He is my compadre in crime. And he has lots of opinions and suggestions. I usually ask for his opinions only to be amused by his funny feedback but sometimes he makes surprising sense. Recently I made some new curtains for John's room. I was checking out fabric options and asked John about this red ticking stripe. We put the swatch up against the pillow on his bed and I asked him how he liked it. He studied it, twisted his lips, then said "um, it doesn't go with the other pillow". Indeed, it was not the best fabric choice but his candid response was really amusing and made me laugh. Once we decided on the appropriate fabric (with his approval, of course) he helped me pin the fabric in place to sew it. He handed me the pins then put them back in the pin cushion after I removed them. I know, should I let a 3 year old be handling pins?? but he really is so careful....and I was closely supervising him.
Here are our curtains:
ahhh, light and bright! Ignore the white sheetrock patches I need to paint over. YIKES! I'll also point out that when John saw the completed curtains hanging he made a surprised face and said "Mom! The colors of the curtains match my bed!" Point noted, little man....check!
Well, lest you think John is a perfect angel all of the time, a virtual mini adult helping us here and there, cooking, weeding, and sewing at our command, I must be real and let you know that scattered with the good stuff is our fair share of disobedience spells, selective hearing, back-talking, crazy tantrums, and delayed response when asked to do things. We have had our share of power struggles the past few months. But I guess since John made it through the two's fairly easily I can't get off scot free without the three's being a bit more trying. But as all parents know, the sweet moments far out weigh the bad ones so we'll focus on the good here!